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Martha's Vineyard Bachelorette Planning Timeline

Lodging, travel, Saturday dinner, then the cute stuff — the sequence that keeps weekends intact.

From the scrapbook · thirties, 15+ Island weddings as a friend Updated Oct 2, 2026 Verified Oct 2, 2026

Lock it in this order

Lodging, travel, Saturday dinner, then the cute stuff. Reverse that order and the weekend starts eating itself. Activities are dessert. The table is the meal.

Suggested sequence

  1. Lodging deposit when dates lock.
  2. Ferry or flights once town is chosen.
  3. Saturday dinner reservation outreach.
  4. Charter or chef holds.
  5. Brunch research (Sunday timing).

If the group skipped straight to activities, send them back to the planning guide before anyone buys matching hats.